walked us all around the place..all open tables then sat us in the bar tables.Slow service is all I can say,and I have been to MANY ,MANY,sit down restaurants.There is no reason for it.
if you owned a restaurant,you would know you arent always sat at the first table closest to the door.we have a seating order to make it fair on the servers,like most restaurants have.im sure if you had spoken up at being seated at the closest table,you would have been put at that table.i do believe if you are this concerned you might want to stop posting anonymously here and actually take your concerns to the actual live people who can handle your concerns.
my best guess is that the hostess in question has a spurned lover out to get her.